• Thinking Outloud

    On my way to Atlantic City and can’t help but notice how life is…. Although it sounds funny to say… it’s hard to remember that besides myself, my friends and my associates there are others in this world that live life as well… That might sound like a funny statement but I’m just being honest…. Before knowing of me whether it was via this blog, social site, online radio or work you had no idea I existed…. You had no thought of a Hispanic that went by the name of Crumbs…

    You might ask yourself “what the fuck are you talking bout” and well you have a right to think that lol… my point is that for every action in your life it will affect a person you have no idea exists… There are soo many people that I have met that are actually connected by friends or family and it opens my eyes as to how small this world is… So with this I say… Treat everyone with respect.. Show love… Don’t stop another persons movement because in the long run that movement might be part of yours….


  • Life’s Options

    *warning these are my thoughts and are not meant to be taken as “facts” or “truths”… rather just a different angle on the thing we call life and the decisions we make as I see them thru my eyes*

    Life is a cycle your born, you live and then you die.. In between you experience struggle, love, hate, anger, jealousy, joy etc… As the owner of your own life you make the decisions as to what your life will be based on and what it will be defined as when it ends.

    We have people who live their entire lives without actually living it… They will stay in a bubble and only observe others, making comments on how they would do things differently but will never actually leave that bubble to make those life decisions themselves… They don’t know the meaning of enjoying life because all they have done during their lives is be critics for everyone else’s lives but their own… Its a smart life choice if your willing to sacrifice what this life, this world has to offer to everyone that has a chance to experience it. What’s the point of living if your not actually living.. Existence is not living but rather just taking up space.

    We also have the people living in the fast lane… People who only drink, smoke, party never a dull moment with these people… Some of you guys might think “well isn’t that the point of life?” And in part yes it is the point… But if your walking around comatose half the time to the world how can you truly enjoy it? How can you experience life when you can barely experience consciousness? I’m not knocking the party lifestyle because at one point everyone should live it but I do knock those that choose this lifestyle over a more enlightened path.. Its only so many times you can dance to the same song, buy the same drinks, use the same pickup lines until you want more… And if you don’t want more than that in life then more power to you…

    Then we have the individual who dedicate their life to a family… They don’t have any true “me” time and deep down inside are miserable… This happens more than often and mostly always leads to the end of this family lifestyle… What holds a family is the understanding of who each person within that family truly is… If the family is being held by lies its only a matter of time that this falls apart… You need to be able to define yourself to define your family… Believe in yourself and that loving yourself will help you love your family even more. Sacrifices are made to have a family that is a fact but those sacrifice should not be the definition of who you are..

    Life is a balance…. Its a balance about appreciating your surroundings, appreciating family and appreciating a good time all around… If there isn’t an equal balance I don’t believe you can truly have a grasp as to what life can be… Sometimes doing the convenient thing isn’t good at all.. Sometimes making a decision where struggle and pain is expected will be the best option… What’s life without knowing struggle… Without struggle you can’t truly appreciate what success feels like..

    Life I believe is NOT meant to be perfect but instead filled with pain and confusion that way you can embrace with your entire heart the things you earn in life… Open your eyes, life is about everything.. the decisions we all make affects all our lives at one point… We are all connected so for every person you make happy they will make someone else happy and the same goes for people you make unhappy….

    Ok this is enough ranting from me lol…


  • Rain Drops

    Life goes on whether you wake up the next morning or not… Life keeps on trucking on the same road on the same destination course… That course is unknown to all except for the driver of the truck… With this being said I wonder why soo many of us focus on the wrong things in life… Clothes, jewelry, cars, purses, wealth etc.. We focus soo much on these things that we lose sight of what we are suppose to be doing on this earth which is living… We don’t take any of these material objects after we pass… Money doesn’t go with u if it’s in your casket.

    After life, Heaven, Hell, Reincarnation… All these things are rumors… It’s not a shot at any religion but it’s the truth.. These are rumors of what could be if we don’t follow “the rules” .. My point being that we live life with some kind of certainty that we are destined to end up with one of these outcomes not thinking that maybe after our last curtain call the show closes up and that’s that… Like I said life doesn’t stop after we are far and gone and with time we are not forgotten but we are memories… So why not enjoy life when we have it? Why not forget bout those rims and maybe take in a nice day on an island… Maybe instead of worrying bout the next big thing u should be worrying about what you want to get accomplished before ur last act.

    I don’t think most of us understand that nothing in life is promised except death.. And also the beauty that is the world that we live in.. I can sit here and name all of the beauties that I have witnessed in my life but what’s the point if u can’t experience it… Watching the birth of ur child, enjoying an anniversary with a loved one, hugging ur parents, looking at a sunset on a beach with a drink next to u .. That’s what life is.. It’s not being the cool kid on the block, the bad bitch in the club.. That don’t mean shit in my eyes.. To be honest if that’s ur answer for a fullfilling life then blessed be ur life..

    I don’t want to knock anyones life and if I am I can careless to be honest.. The point of the post was to maybe inspire one or two people to stop worrying about material objects in life and/or the quantity of funds in their accounts and focus on what counts… Living… Living life… #IAmTunechi (Twitter thing)


  • Human Touch

    In a time where we have sooo many ways to communicate with eachother (text, cell, email, skype, bbm etc) i think we forget one form of communication which is more genuine than any … In Person… Sure u can send messages of how much you care for a person over a text but u can never compare that to the feeling you give that person when you do it in person.

    In this day and age we have replaced human contact with technology … Why get to know someone when you can read their bio? Why make your own opinions of a person thru interactions when u can read other peoples opinions on social networks and/or blogs? It’s funny the one thing we think we can’t live without is sometimes stopping us from actually living… We order things online cause it’s easier, we don’t have to leave the house and we also don’t have to deal with speaking to a sales rep… But we forget that without us that rep has no job… If all we use is technology to get things accomplished then we will become a zombie like society, one who doesn’t speak but only types… It’s funny cause that’s what I’m doing now… But sometimes the Internet voice is heard louder than any microphone you use to enhance your voice.

    The point of this post is NOT to knock technology, social networks and/or chat platforms but rather to remind you that nothing beats that human interaction without technology involved… That face to face interaction when you look into someones eyes and can tell if they are lying or if they are being truthful… Don’t become a slave to technology… Our lives could be soo much more if we went out and breathed fresh air and touched a love one rather than sending an email.. Hug ur loved ones… An email doesn’t express true emotions only words ….#IAmTunechi (Twitter joke)